You are NOT alone
You’re not lost. You are in the in-between.
That quiet space where something inside begins to stir, even if the next step isn’t clear.
It’s not failure; it’s an INVITATION. An awakening.
And your first move? Not to do more, but to ask WHO YOU WANT TO BE in what comes next.
Something has shifted. There is a quiet ache.
I see you. You’ve done so much — raised a family, led teams, contributed with wisdom and care. By any external measure, life appears to be going well. But inside? Something’s shifted. There’s a quiet ache.
You’re not in crisis, but you’re not energised either.
There’s a sense of standing still.
You’ve stopped asking what’s next because you’re unsure how to answer.
There was a time when you were moving toward something — a goal, a project, a change. Now, the days blur into one another. You keep showing up, doing what needs to be done, but there’s no real spark behind it. And the worst part? You feel like you should be grateful. Others see a calm, capable woman. But beneath the surface, you’re wondering: Is this it?
This is a tender space. The in-between. The quiet stretch between one chapter ending and the next beginning — only this time, there’s no script. No clear deadline. Just the dull throb of wanting something more, without knowing what it is or how to begin.
I want you to know: this feeling isn’t failure. It’s an invitation. It means something in you is waking up — or wants to. It’s a signal, not a flaw.
You don’t need to figure everything out right now. But you can take a gentle step toward clarity. Here’s something I suggest — something small, but surprisingly powerful:
Start a to-be list. Not a to-do list. A TO-BE list.
Find 10 quiet minutes and with a notebook and a cup of tea, ask yourself:
What do I want more of in my life right now?
What kind of woman do I want to be in this next chapter?
What parts of me have I silenced — and miss?
This list isn’t about plans or pressure. It’s about truth. And it might surprise you.
Maybe you want to be more curious. More playful. More visible.
Maybe you want to write. Or speak. Or simply rest.
Don’t worry yet about how it will happen. Just let the answers rise.
What I know — and what you may already sense — is that change doesn’t start with action. It starts with permission. The permission to want. To imagine. To become.
You haven’t missed your moment. You’re in it. And you’re not alone.
